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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sweet irony for sexless married dude would be to find out that his wife is not sexless, but just sexless with him.[/quote]That's a great fantasy but OK, I'll play along.  If that were the case, the outcome is the same for me so it makes no difference to how this plays out.  Either way, she isn't willing to resume our sex life.[/quote]

So are you only about you?  Does it matter that you will affect her for a very long time if she finds out about your infidelity?  If not, then you should be divorcing her anyway.  If you do care for her, then do the right thing.  I guess it comes down to whether you care for anyone but yourself.  [/quote]  I don't know what matters to her but I doubt this will affect her for a very long time.  She will get over it the same as anyone else and move on.  Hopefully to a more compatible relationship with her changed way of thinking.  Or maybe some man who can re-ignite that spark that has died.  Indeed, I care for her.  This is just sex.  It's not the entirety of my marraige.[/quote]

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