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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kid targeted Paramount and VA Juniors (prestigious clubs?) ... among others ... during the November tryouts.  I don't want to flat out say that the pre-tryout clinics were a moneygrab, but we tried to be a bit more strategic going into this season, which would be the second club season for my player.  We really didn't "know" any clubs going into her first club year, so we only went with some word-of-mouth suggestions from fellow high school players.  Our intent with the most recent tryouts was to be ensure that clubs had seen our kid at least once before the tryout weekend.  Before anyone screams, we did not seriously look at Metro as its practices would not work for us logistically.  My kid decided to go to make-up tryout there at the last minute "for fun."  Their rosters were likely set before that make-up, but one coach said something like "We wish we had seen her sooner."

As far as any player movement between clubs, here's what I've observed.  Paramount simply added this year's rosters to their website while keeping last year's rosters online.  As a quick check, it looks like 9 players from the 17s moved up to the 18s (4 ?new? players) while seven players from the 16s moved up to 17s (7 ?new?).  I didn't look too hard to see if some of the "new" players moved up more than one age group.  (My kid is not  playing 17s/18s.)  If you can get the VA Juniors website to work, you will see that they haven't posted this year's rosters, but last year's teams were still there.  I haven't seen VA Juniors play this season, so I couldn't begin to discern if any players are new or returning.  My kid's club from last year hasn't posted this year's rosters, but we've only seen one or two familiar faces from last year.  Most of my kid's team landed at different clubs (apparently two or more ended up at Paramount).[/quote]

Juniors is a bit of a sad story - they used to be a top 2/3 club in the region until they became totally toxic (mainly due to some dire coaches who had no idea how to coach young girls). They are now a feeder club to Paramount who are a clear number 2 in the region and snapping on the heels of Metro.[/quote]

It's unfortunate this story is continuing ^^^.  Juniors is still a very strong club and yes, I'd still consider them third with Paramount being number 2.  Metro is the historic #1 in CHRVA but Paramount is coming for them and has amazing players.  The problem with paramount and what holds them back is the coaches YELL at the kids in a very toxic manner and they over stack the roster so girls just sit around and watch.  Metro teams aren't very close, the girls operate as individuals instead of a team.  The girls are highly athletic and the teams do well, however the team dynamics are challenging.  VA Jrs got the message that they need to recruit and are doing a better job doing so. The envionrment is overall more positive than Paramount and just works better for some of the top talent in the region.

Overall, there are many clubs with different options for every player.  I advise parents to choose clubs that work best for their daughter, and ignore what is considered "the best" b/c "the best" club may not be so for the development and dynamics for your DD.

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Juniors are a disaster and are in no way 3rd in the region. They are decent at the younger age groups and then all their best players leave to go to Metro or Paramount. They were totally ruined by one Coach in particular who made it a very toxic environment and completely played favorites. One age group he coached pretty much quit as a team.[/quote]

I feel like this got personal. Is there anything you need to get off your chest?[/quote]

Anyone who’s been on a Juniors team in the past 5 years, knows exactly who this refers to, and it’s been bad.[/quote]

I am willing to bet that most of this forum's readers have no clue what you are talking about. The idea that there are people out there who know what you are talking about is simply not useful to this thread. It simply looks like you have some personal beef with MD Juniors and try to spread rumors. [/quote]

My dd has been on JRs for four years and while I know who PP is referring to, they are grossly exaggerating the situation and is clearly making it personal.  To the pp that feels burned by Jrs, I'm glad your DD ended up somewhere that works better for her but highly recommend you don't go around bashing the entire club because you are incorrect.[/quote]

I know who this is about too, and while my DD spent several happy years at VA Juniors, Liz stepping back was not a good thing. If you search on this forum for VA Jnrs - you get plenty of stuff that doesn’t make great reading….example below, and it doesn’t look like it’s just one person….

“All true stories about Coach Jharred at VA Jrs…

1) Has moles/friends snap pictures at restaurants of volleyball families enjoying evenings together. One case in point…

This one is really creepy so please read!!!

One night we were out at a bar with a family whose daughter was on the same travel volleyball team as our daughter. Our 6’ 2” daughter (3rd season at VAJ and being watched by Yale coaches) had already quit the team halfway through the season for several reasons (new private school 75 minutes away had a strict quarantine policy, fourth “surprise” Middle added to the team after tryout selections were made, unreal expectations, favoritism, and so much more). The mole at the bar snapped a picture of our families and texted it to Jharred. Jharred then reached out to the other daughter via text and said AND I QUOTE “Why is your family out with the BLANK family???”

2) Recruits way too many players for one team! Four Middles on one team is an AWFUL strategy! Probably how Liz (owner) is recouping losses from the 2020 season.

3) Makes his own teammates turn on each other due to playtime challenges with that many girls on one roster. He’s even gossiped poorly to his OWN rostered athletes about their teammates. Very divisive!

4) Treats “specific” athletes like they are his gal pals! Those athletes get the most playtime despite a lower skill level.

Avoid Coach Jharred’s team like it’s the plague!!!”
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Every club has it's issues and pros/cons.   Some kids/parents are ok with the win at all costs culture at Paramount and will tolerate getting screamed at and demoralized by the coaching staff.  Choose your hard.  And don't make it personal, which is something that is clearly happening with this lastest string of messages.  [/quote]

Why would you think anything on this thread was personal? There was a PP who did their research and objectively pointed out how bad one specific coach in a specific club was. The PP even found opinions of other parents who were unhappy with that coach and resurrected those conversations from old threads. There was clearly nothing personal, the PP just wanted others to be aware.[/quote]

I just wanted to clarify that this was sarcastic. A few of the last posts were definitely personal.[/quote]

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