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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I read a blog from Rebecca at Fosterhood, who herself was adopted as a child and who has fostered with the intent to adopt 2 kids of her own. Her view on this is that the parents were unprepared and never should have been allowed to attempt this adoption in the first place because of that unpreparedness. And who knows, maybe they are terrible people. But the important thing, she says, is the welfare of the child, and for that she is grateful that these parents recognized they were in over their heads and gave the child another chance somewhere else. The outcome of that child, in that household, was not going to be good. It's easy to bash this couple and I'm not defending them. But we don't really want the child to end up with them when they weren't able to take care of the kid. To want these parents to keep the child, given the parents they are, is to effectively root against the child. Just another way of looking at the situation.[/quote] They absolutely shouldn't have been approved by our standards but by the agency and home study standards there was probably nothing to deny them if everything looks good on the surface. Its not so much that they couldn't handled it its how they went about it. They should have used a licensed agency or foster care system to make sure that it was done properly. They shouldn't have used this child for money making/social media and kept his image/name to a minimum.[/quote]
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