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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No you aren't a women with Daddy issues, you are a women with issues with women. You come into the relationship competing with the grown children of the man you married. You resent Daddy spending money and time on his existing kids, you have zero idea how to relate to them and spend zero time trying to get to know them and develop a relationship with them. Then you start popping out new babies to replace those kids and icing them out of Daddy's life. YOU are the problem.  [/quote]

Moron...problem is you couldn't accept daddy moved on. Had new kids because he wanted them[/quote]

MORON no 40-50 year man with almost gown children wants babies. and you shouldn't be such a C$NT to his existing children. [/quote]

My husband is 46 and wanted more kids because crazy ex alienated him from first.
Guess what he still wants more. You know why because in his words he finally got to be a dad and not a check book. 
He's happy to finally get to have a real relationship with children who aren't vindictive sh*ts.
As for the kids they will be treated how they treat us.[/quote]

You are blaming children for your H's failure to parent his own children.

No real father can lose all relationship with their kids if they have 50/50 custody. Most men just don't want their kids 50% of the time and then are a-holes when they have no relationship.

Did he have 50/50 custody?[/quote]

My husband would have gladly had full custody but that’s not how things work.  His ex took the kids and ran away cross country with her ap while he was at work.  And, no he could not just up and move or he’d be court marshal led.  See how that works.  [/quote]

He had recourse. He could have filed an emergency custody order. There is a nationwide law about this and she would have been forced to move back unless he was physically abusing her and the kids. Your DH is a bag of lies and excuses. 
I can’t believe you actually believe this story. It’s not how the court system works. [/quote][/quote]

NP here. He might have been an absent father to his first set of kids and he's an involved father to the second wife's kids. Biologically, a man's bond with his children is very much influenced by the relationship with the mom. We were in a very different situation (my dad was a widower with two kids when he married my mom) and he's much more involved with us, even as adults.[/quote]

Nah. Most of it just age.  [/quote]

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