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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]An interesting 1999 interview with Ben is resurfacing.

He says most of his exes despise him. He says it is because he is unhappy and passive in relationships and when he finally has enough, he  just ghosts the partner one day and stops playing along. It seems his pattern of behavior hasn’t changed

https://www.oocities.org/affleck1971/playboy.html

PLAYBOY: Are other former girlfriends generally pissed off at you?
AFFLECK: Mostly, yeah.

PLAYBOY: Why?
AFFLECK: Probably justifiably so. If I were the next guy to go out with them I'm sure I would be nodding in agreement about what an a-hole their ex-boyfriend was. It's not like I was a womanizer or physically abusive or psychologically abusive or whatever. It's just that these relationships never end well. I think what happens is, I end up wanting to be out of the relationship. During the course of a relationship, if you get dissatisfied and unhappy and don't say something, if you don't deal with it right then, it just festers and stays there. So instead of saying, "Look, don't do that, please don't act this way," I go along with it until I just don't want to be in the relationship at all. Then I create some incident or do something or just don't call. And then she's pissed. And I can't necessarily blame her at that point since I've developed such a passive-aggressive rage that I have no sympathy and tell her, "Well of course I didn't call you. If you weren't such a nagging, shrewish harpy I'd call you." [b]But that hopefully is something I'm growing out of.[/[/b]quote]

About that. I can't believe he ghosted his own wife! Do you guys think her kids were the one to tell Jlo he was moving his stuff out since they were staying there? How awful [/quote]

If he has alcoholism it means he never learned healthy coping skills. Change is hard work.[/quote]

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