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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Both of them are terrible parents. It is *not* good for babies and toddlers to be constantly jetsetting without a primary caregiver. Couldn’t they beg one of the grandmas to stay with them full time during their busy working periods? That is what the Obamas did. They can still hire a nannies to do the hard stuff but grandma will provide the unconditional familial love and continuity that a nanny cannot.

Leaving grandma aside, did they *really* need to take constant vacations to Italy, Vegas, etc.? At least during their free time they couldn’t stay in their primary home to provide some semblance of stability for their kids? So much whiplash, immobile travel time when they should be active, probably lots of screen time too…[/quote]

The traveling is what it is, but I don't think it's accurate to say the kids have been "constantly jetsetting without a primary caregiver."  The show Sophie just filmed is her first major role since the oldest child was born.  She (and Joe, for all I know) slowed way down to care for the kids while they were very young.

Now she's ready to ramp back up and they--wouldn't you know it--did exactly what you suggest: [b]moved to be close to Grandma/Grandpa in England.[/b] [/quote]

It doesn’t sound like Sophie’s parents do much (and of course, JJ’s parents do even less). If they had stepped up to be the primary, continuous caregivers for the children (with help from nannies) they would have either 1) kept the children with them while Joe toured and Sophie worked, or 2) taken the kids along with one of the parents.

Honestly, 1) would have been the better choice for the children. Maintain a stable schedule in a stable home instead of this nomadic lifestyle. It’s not like this situation isn’t going to come up again and again as long as they both continue working. Joe can’t necessarily reschedule tour dates to avoid conflicts with Sophie’s shoots or vice versa. The only way it is tenable is if the grandparents really step up and provide the kids a stable home during those times, at least while they are young (under 10)[/quote]

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