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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need some more details: What is current pay? How much more is she asking for? What does she say her reason is for asking for more? [/quote] Current pay is $200/week. I think the au pair agency requires a $195/week. She didn't specify how much more - just that she wanted more. I told her I would think about it. I think she's asking because she thinks we are well off and can afford it. I was initially confused by this request because she's only been with us for 3 months. She's average at best. My first thought was that I could use this to leverage getting her to do some things - such as play or interact with the kids (this rarely happens), do their laundry, and keep the kitchen and family room tidy. Right now, none of those things happen.[/quote] She sounds awful. I'd rather pay $250/ week for an au pair who does all of the things that she currently doesn't. The fact that she currently does none of those things, super basic things imo, and asked for more money in less than a year, with no reason given outside of just wanting more money would sour me to her and I'd have lost respect for her and trust in her. [/quote]
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