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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Without wading through 43 pages....

My mindset was 100% sexual.  Here's the easiest way to test it.  I would have the overwhelming urge to call my AP.  But if I took care of myself, the urge went away, completely.  In fact, the idea then seemed risky and stupid.

Just one view that sometimes it's just an unfulfilled primal urge.[/quote]

Maybe for some but you'll find many women who say they were having sex with their husbands but they still cheated.  Also, if that is the case, just taking care of yourself should solve the problem but it clearly doesn't with the cheaters.  There's more to it.  [/quote]

Well, the reasons people have sex are not solely for physical pleasure.  It's human connection, feelings of being desired, validation, closeness, all of those are part and parcel of the orgasmic experience.  So its all of it.

Of course some people cheat for variety and some because they are sexually deprived.  Both can also be true at once.[/quote]

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