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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Very curious....aren't the APs in this thread afraid of being found out? Like wouldn't it matter to you that your spouse would be very upset and that could be the end of your marriage? [/quote]

No I wouldn't mind. I've been "very unhappy" with my H's lack of interest in physical touch and sex for over 15 years. If our marriage ends because I need things that he is not interested in giving to me, then that's on both of us. I have told him, directly and many times, in front of a counsellor and when it's just the two of us, that perfunctory sex involving body parts but not shared intimacy sucks totally. He doesn't understand what more I want and won't be vulnerable to me. If he decides that me sharing intimacy, which he doesn't want to give or receive, emotional and physical, is the end of our otherwise okay marriage, that's his choice. He would never admit it, but I think deep down he's relieved that he doesn't have to respond to me on other than a logistical level.[/quote]

What happened here?? Did you buy into the ‘ no sex before marriage’ tripe? [/quote]

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