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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our society has changed a lot. Women don't need men to have a fulfilling life. And they tell men every chance they get. [/quote]

+1. What can a man offers a woman that she cannot have by herself if she is financially successful?

Sex - easy (the younger she goes the easier)
Child- easy (adoption, or sperm donor/
Money, - easy(more women graduating college and quickly climbing corporate ladder)
Emotional support - other women (their friends) better suited for that  
Taking care of the home and a man-child - they can easily avoid that by not marrying and they will be much happier 
Longevity - I heard never married single women live longer

So what do women need men?

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The same goes for men. The reason for marriage is that it is a superior format for raising children.[/quote]
Most men don't get emotional support from other men, and a lot of men don't do much housechores.[/quote]

Do they generate messes, dirty dishes, stinky sheets & drawers, eaten magical meals, use utilities, drive a vehicle someone else maintains, wear down house systems and appliances, etc. Etc.?

Do they proactively take care of the above for themselves or others or dependents? [/quote]
A lot of them don't proactively clean up, no, but they do generate messes.

However, I do think having an s/o is nice for companionship.  It's not quite the same as having a same sex friend, and it's not all about sex.  OTH, I'd rather be alone that have a man-child.  Luckily, I am not married to a man/child.  I got married at 33, which is considered old in my culture back in the day (I'm in my 50s), because I didn't want to marry a man/child.  I was prepared to stay single if I did not find a good catch. Luckily, I did.[/quote]

Did you ever have kids with your spouse? 
That’s the ultimate test for who can or will grow up or not.

Many males retreat into themselves instead of rising to the demands of parenting and being an active homeowner or family member. [/quote]

Agree.

And it destroys the marriage and relationships. [/quote]

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