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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]nah, no one needs crummy grandparents.  you guys are trolls. just clean up your act and be decent to your adult children are.[/quote]

they’re terrified because they are realizing that the consequences of being shitty parents is that they won’t have access to their grandkids.

My son has met my dad. But I’m amused to be hectored about how I have some kind of duty to preserve family bonds with someone who disinherited me.

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Exactly this.  My own parents are making a minimal effort to have a relationship and be conciliatory after we told them that no, they don’t get to visit this summer and see us or their grandkids.  I won’t have my children subjected to bigotry, intolerance, or toxicity.

We aren’t even on speaking terms and they sent a GD email telling us when they would be visiting and that they’d stay at a hotel near our home and will come to our house and visit daily.  Like, no, this isn’t how this works.  What kind of narcissistic person thinks they can go from not speaking to their children for months and every time they did talk it was horrible to we are deciding we are visiting?  Like it’s some right of an American grandparent to see their grandchildren?  [/quote]

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