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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dramatic much? I have been having an affair for seven years with a guy who is open about the fact his marriage is pretty good, other than the infrequent, low passion sex. He never even said he doesn't get sex from his wife. Neither of us want to leave our spouses in general, and we do not want to be married to each other. We both find the sex and friendship worthwhile and gives us somethings we don't get in our marriages. We have five kids between us. I don't see how it would be better to be transparent and blow up two families than to continue seeing each other. We haven't seen each other since early March, so it's not like we can't live without each other.

With 5 kids between you, how do you and AP find time? How did you meet? And how do you hid the expenses from you DH?  That's the part I never understand. How do all these people find the time and money to have an affair without their spouses finding out
[/quote]How much do you think it costs?  It really isn't that much.  We don't go out to eat or buy each other expensive gifts.  Hotels can add up unless you have a place to go.  Finding the time is a big factor.  A lot more people would cheat if they could only find time that isn't accounted for.[/quote]

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