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Reply to "Holding my boundary. Let him be mad."
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[quote=Anonymous]Being a martyr is not based on actions but on emotions, self perception, thought patterns, etc. You invest huge amounts of energy into trivia to distract from what? Worries about money and security? Loneliness in your marriage? Lack of sex and affection? You set up hopeless situations like the sand, all he has to do is nothing and it captures your emotions for the weekend, take your power back and stop doing this to YOURSELF and your KID. https://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-Martyr-Syndrome This pattern will play out until you change your reactions and self perceptions and thought patterns. Filing for divorce will not fix these patterns, just give different ways to play them out. [/quote]
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