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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the reason so many prominent people have publicly and strongly sided with Larson, and the support for Dorland has been slower to emerge and often veiled in anonymity (as here) is that powerful people identify with Larsen and the writing group. They identify with the idea of people they don’t like wanting to be friends with them, and with the idea of being polite to their face while trashing them privately because that is something they have done in the past.

The people who identified with Dorland are, by definition, people who have been traumatized by in/out group dynamics and may carry a lot of shame and grief. I have been obsessed with this story since in came out but there is no trace that I’ve even read it on Twitter or elsewhere. I have only talked about it here and in, yes, a group chat with people who know my connection to the story. I am afraid any public discussion about this story would draw the attention of the people who used to stalk my social media expressly to make fun of me while smiling to me face. I always police my public activity for this reason, but something like this feels especially risky.[/quote]

I am definitely on the Dawn side of the spectrum, and find it interesting that people seem to be worried about their own skeletons.  I know there is zero chance of me having some email/chat/text history where I proudly said the things they did about anyone, let alone where they person being discussed was just doing cringe-inducing needy stuff.  The way they all loved to engage on the topic -- contrary to what they are saying now about how they barely knew she existed -- is so striking, and foreign to me.[/quote]

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