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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the last IG post with Gabby holding the pumpkin and saying, “ happy Halloween “ is an important clue because didn’t the couple say that they intended to end their van life trip in Oregon around Halloween

So, if Gabby posed for this photo in late August and if she posted it , not Brian , that might mean that she was saying basically, “ Halloween in August “ IOW “ the trip is over ….Van life is over “

Or whoever posted that photo is saying that

So, either Brian got back to the van and found a note from Gabby making it unequivocal that she had left - or signed herself into a psych ward or something - something that would make it clear that there is no point looking for her ( maybe they talked by phone ) and so he drove home . When she didn’t return to her parents - remember she had chosen to go live with Brian’s family - so if they break up that means she has to go home to her parents and maybe , just maybe she didn’t want to do that . So maybe she told Brian she was going home , but never did.

Maybe Brian left his house to take the heat off of his parents . Didn’t his sister post an open letter in NYT saying she had not spoken to Brian since Sept 1st

It’s clear that both of these young people were unstable and , yes, Brian’s default was to get in the van and go his own way - or go off camping alone and leave her in the van . She is completely dependent on him and his family - has allowed herself to become so , which no one seems to think is weird of her parents to allow . Just saying I think there is more to this story .

Why did Gabby’s parents allow her to move in with Brian’s family ? Why can’t she stay on her own or with her own family , go to college, start a career path ? Why is she not finding those supports at home ? Something isn’t right there .

So, of course, Brian defaults to treating her like a basket case and goes back and forth between using her for her van and trying to do his own thing and leaving her in the van and trying to go off and do his own thing until - it seems- they tried to make a fake IG Happy Ending “ Happy Halloween “ “ the end “ post , but no one gets it

Maybe she posted that and went off somewhere or was committed somewhere or maybe he posted after killing her - IDK , but bottom line : don’t quit your job, team up with an unemployed bf who also has no job and go be homeless together living out of your vehicle for months on end with no purpose other than pretending for others that your life is GREAT

Lots of 20 somethings struggle - the best way through those years - get a job, have a routine , form a small group of friends you trust and whatever you do DO NOT become emotionally dependent on ONE person - other than yourself, that is

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