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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]haven't read through this whole thread, but I think some of these parents really need to get their own lives. don't you have anything better to think about than throwing pizza parties for your kid's classroom? [/quote] I’m a room parent for an upper elementary classroom. The teacher asked to two class parties this year during lunchtime and includes pizza. She even told me where to order and how many of cheese and how many of pepperoni I should order. How would you like me to handle this?[/quote] If funds allow, say yes. If not, politely decline and say you can bring snacks to supplement the lunch the kids are already bringing/buying. This is not rocket science.[/quote] +1. The answer isn't browbeating or shaming parents into providing the funds. If it is that important to you not to tell the teacher you don't have money for this, then you should pay for it.[/quote] -1 The majority of parents can afford the class funds requested each year. We all know this. We know where they vacation. We know what they drive and where they live. We know what shoes their kids wear and what sunglasses they have. The point is it is frustrating when they don't contribute to the class fund. Yep, it's voluntary but it helps their kid as much as the rest of the class. No one can make them. It doesn't bother me that much but it is annoying. I agree no one should be shamed or browbeaten, but I also agree that it isn't right that a family who can easily afford to contribute $35 a year to the class fund just doesn't because they don't. [/quote] You ostensibly recognized the contribution is voluntary, but the rest of the post makes clear you really don't treat it as such. That, and itnis none of your business how else they spend THEIR money.[/quote] If they choose to spend money on their fancy vacations but let other people spend money on their kids at school, they are selfish. I agree with the -1 pp[/quote]
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