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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You become a giant asshole, the HUGEST, and then things progress naturally from there.[/quote]

:lol: of course. We got an easy target for fingerpointing.
The thing is, it’s not that black and white.
We actually don’t know the context.

A friend of mine who is 45 is having an affair because after telling his wife thousand times that her neglecting herself and becoming fat was a problem for the marriage, he finally realized she was not going to try to improve this situation.
He is fit, still loves her & the kids, and she is depending on him financially.
What is he supposed to do? Renounce sex for life?

I totally understand the cheating under these circumstances and I don’t judge him.[/quote]

46 year old female. My husband, who never had a high or even normal sex drive even in his 30s, is overweight and a drunk. Does not initiate, ever. Never gets me off - hasn't in over 15 years. I throw him pity sex 3 or 4 times a month. He hasn't noticed that I've gone from actively complaining about our sex life to never mentioning it. So long as I let him sleep and drink as much as he wants, he is fine, even over a long weekend. I started an affair well over four years ago, and it saved our marriage. My affair partner told me right up front that his marriage is intact, except his wife has lost her passion, and that he would never leave her. I am content now. [/quote]

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