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[quote=Anonymous]From OP

Thanks for all the responses. DD had a very hard time with milk and dairy as an infant. We weren't sure yet at the mashed potato incident but we were working with her pediatrician to find out what was causing her diarrhea and discomfort. My rule to everyone was no feeding anything about to DD without asking. I breastfed and at 3 months I had to eliminate dairy. We were struggling with breastfeeding so them feeding solids wasn't helpful there either.

With all of that said, that isn't my main concern is whether or not my wishes will be respected. I'm not nitpicky and every food rule is there for a reason. I need to know that my child is in safe hands and that whoever is watching her is following my wishes to ensure that. I leave a list with my sister and she's sweet enough to text me when she's completed stuff on the list. "Larla had a banana for a snack. Now its naptime".

It makes me sad that ILs aren't going to be watching her like my grandparents watched me. Those are times I cherish even as an adult. DH are sticking with our initial decision ans I posted here because I really was struggling with that decision.[/quote]

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