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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm glad you're not my daughter. I have no problem with someone being a SAHM (my daughter is) but to define that as your goal from the get go is sad.[/quote]

Why? Lots of women have led very fulfilled lives as wives and homemakers. I only wish I'd had the chance myself. My kids suffered. Now I wish I'd provided less in material things and more time and attention. My career, in retrospect, didn't amount to a hill of beans.
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Because [b]becoming a SAHM is something decided by partners in the context of a family, not a plan before you have met your husband.[/b]
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Honestly, this makes no sense. If your eventuality is that you're going to be an SAHM, you should NOT go to graduate school unless your family is so wealthy that the expense is virtually unfelt to them. You certainly should not go into debt for it.

If you know that is what you want, you should absolutely just go for it. Tell men up front when you date them that is what you want. They can decide for themselves if that is how they see their lives. [/quote]

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