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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We were hosting this year. Our 14 yo girl sees my brother going at it with my husband's sister in the basement. Both of them are recently divorced, one with a 7 year old kid! So she comes upstairs, calls me to the side (we are entertaining, seated in the living room, some of us including my MIL, my other sister in the kitchen etc) and tells me what she saw. Initially I am too stunned to believe her. Then I tip toe downstairs and hear their conjugal sounds. I call my husband out from the game room where he is with his dad and other brother and he loses his shit- he marches downstairs, coitus interruptus, and kicks her sister out on the curb. Craziness ensues- MIL faints. my other sister and her DH leave in a hurry. My turkey stays in the oven and is ruined. My husband has turned red and mouthing profanities including calling her sister a slut (evidently she cheated which led to the collapse of her marriage). We bundle all the kids upstairs but the older ones are giggling by now. Husband, MIL & FIl finally calm down. His other brother brings up something about cutting the inheritance and more craziness ensues. SIL and I are too stunned and I call it quits by 530. We all get pizzas for dinner. Will NEVER EVER forget this thanksgiving. [/quote] 1. There was no need for you to call your husband. You could have told 14 year old to myob. You could have knocked on the door and that would have been enough to let them know they were caught. You could have talked to your brother later about being more cautious and that his niece saw them. You could have later chatted with your daughter about it. 2. You need to have a chat with your husband his reaction was way over the top , inappropriate ( I think more inappropriate than the sexcapades) and cause for concern. Your daughter is 14 it's highly likely within the next 5 years she will be having sex. Do you think it will be okay for your husband to call her a slut if he finds out about her having sex? Do you think it's okay for your daughter to think it's alright for a man to call her a slut? Do you think it's okay for your son to think he can use that term? [/quote]
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