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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]DW here. I also talk about a married co-worker at times with DH. And we text after work-hours. DH knows we went to lunch. DH sees maybe 1 text a week, but really it's daily. DH jokes about my co-worker. Sex with DH is 2-3 times a week and is great in terms of physical sensations but not emotional.

My co-worker has been my AP for months. DH is clueless.

Why do I need an AP? Because he makes me feel like a woman again. He gives me an ego boost. He notices little details about me that DH never noticed. I will never leave DH.[/quote]

OP, take serious note of the above contribution to this discussion.

To the DW in quotes: So is DH clueless because he is dumb or is it because your scam is working? Do you think your marriage is "safer" the way you are carrying on?

He will find out one day because life sucks and you will eventually trip over yourself and spill the beans accidentally. Do you envisage the butthurt/heartache you will cause when he realizes that he was conned for years by your gimmick of hiding your AP in the open? How will you explain to him that you didn't tell anyone else in your social circle? That nobody at work knew or noticed? Or did you? Some of your girl friends must know, they probably told some of their partners too.

What gives your ego more of a boost? The affair or the getting away with it in broad daylight? I would guess the second.[/quote]

I have no girlfriends, so I don't brag about it. No one knows.

He is what DH has never been or will never be. He feels me and understands me. It all started with an emotional affair. He opened up. I opened up. I do not and won't blame my DH. It is solely my fault. I am a whore by most people's definition and by my own standards, as well.[/quote]

This is why you don't get married boys.  She is completely scamming her DH and might some day bring home a disease.  Totally self centered.[/quote]

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