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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm pretty amazed by all the people who say don't worry about it. It's time for this 44 year old to grow up and stop behaving like a frat boy. He's a husband and a father. When I was about his age and with three young children I remember getting drunk and my wife writing me a long handwritten letter (no text!!) reminding me of my responsibilities to her and our kids. That was 20 years ago and I still have the letter. Not that I've been a saint since then but I took her letter to heart. Drinking too much is dangerous for yourself and others. And, when the child id older it can set a bad example. We all like to have a good time but getting drunk doesn't usually lead to a better time....jst a really bad hangover.[/quote]

You obviously never spent any time with frat boys if you think tying one on once every 3 or 4 months is frat boy behavior. To each their own and I'm not going to judge you for making the decision you made the same way you should judge this guy for going off the reservation a couple times per year.

OP - be careful. You can push to far and make him feel like he has to hide it from you. I've seen guys who are married to women that count their drinks and treat them like a child. It's not beneficial to the relationship and it impacts children of the relationship.

Besides, if I was 44 and had a 6 mo old, I'd been drinking heavily too ;) (jk)[/quote]

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