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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I are separating.  It isn't what I want, but he no longer resembles the man I married.  He had an affair with a co-worker about a year ago, and I *think* they ended things, but we've been unable to fix our marriage.  He told me last night that the love they had was so amazing, so pure, and so intense that he now believes our 15+ year marriage was a mistake.  Barf.  SUPPOSEDLY this other woman is in counseling with her husband.  I really, really, really want to contact her husband and let him know that whatever happened between his wife and my husband has led to the dissolution of our marriage.  I feel he has a right to know, and I'd want to know if I were in his shoes.

On a separate issue, we are telling the kids this weekend.  Both children are in lower elementary grades.  Can someone who has been through this tell me what it was like when you did it?  I expect tears, anger, confusion.  I'm committed to holding the line that mommy and daddy both love them and that this is very sad, and that I wish we could all be together but that it just can't happen now.  [/quote]

Tell the woman's husband how her pure love led to the destruction of your family. Your DH and his wife are still in an affair.[/quote]

they are defininitely still doing something. You should tell the other husband.   As long your DH is still with this other woman then he is not working on saving his marriage or family. I am sorry he is putting your and your kids through this.[/quote]

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