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[quote=ZachF]She isn't spending all that time on her phone playing games. She is very likely interacting with someone on a regular basis, all day long. If she's having an affair, the way she is treating you makes perfect sense. When a man complains that his wife doesn't want to have sex anymore, where she once enjoyed it, that man needs to consider that maybe she still enjoys sex as much as ever, just not with him. All these suggestions aside, nothing you do to charm her will make any difference if she is having an affair. Counseling will be a waste of time as she will just lie. Before trying to fix this, you need to rule out an affair without making her suspicious that your radar is up. It could be an emotional affair that will lead to an actual physical affair. Right now, it's all communication and she isn't stepping out. Once she starts spending more time outside the house, working late, meeting her GF who is glad to cover for her (and they all will) then you will know. Start by looking at her phone bill, if possible. How carefully does she guard her phone? Does she always lay it down, screen side down? Does she freely let you use it? Is it with her always, even in the bathroom, never unattended? If all is innocent, maybe you should ask if you can join her in the Snapchat, Facebook, etc., fun. Just like you used to enjoy watching shows together. If this is her new thing, she should welcome you joining in. But I'm guessing she won't.[/quote]
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