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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, just do what lots of  women on this board do, and have sex w your husband once a week whether you feel like it or not. It's really not that big of a deal, just treat it like a workout. Maybe introduce some toys/porn/self-stimulation to improve things for you, too.[/quote]

That is the kind of sex life that leads to complaints like OP's husband's. It's certainly not going to improve anything since it's not a long term workable solution. Men don't want once a week duty sex; they'd rather leave the wife alone and go get it elsewhere.

This is another thing about cheating I don't get. Spouse A makes it clear that sex is annoying, gross, not something they're interested in but they otherwise believe the family is loving and successful and ticking along great. Spouse B sees how much A hates sex but loves the family so goes out for discreet sex with someone else so the family stays intact and A doesn't have to deal with turning down sex or just getting through it. A finds out and blows a gasket. B did you a favor in that case! Family functioning as a whole still, no sex for you.

Op you can believe all you want sex is unimportant or not relevant to this marriage. He has told you he feels otherwise. So you're on notice: figure out a way to meet him in the middle and find a solution that works for both of you or be prepared when he steps out. It's a human need and constant rejection puts all humans in the negative mind space that allows them to have affairs they may have sworn they would never have. [/quote]

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