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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again.

I am utterly amazed at the people who just say dump him, move on, get with someone new. We have two great kids who are growing up successfully in a loving, nurturing environment. We have so many of the things I dreamed of having as a family. Ditch all that? Over sex? Not me. Maybe it's the religious part of me, but I can't believe how many people treat marriage as this disposable thing.

I understand a lot of you think sex should be better than it is. And I will work with my DH again on this. It is clear that he is not happy with the situation, and we need to work on it. Someone asked if I have ever had an orgasm. Yes, but never from actual intercourse. From oral. I don't know, but I have never come close to coming during actual sex. Like I said, I could take it or leave it. Somehow we need to find a solution, I get that. Just not sure what it is.[/quote]

No, you don't actually have a loving, successful marriage because one of the key ingredients of a loving, successful marriage is regular sex.

And I would also flip your comment around. You think people are advocating divorce easily but no one actually is. It is you who is too easily dismissing a key ingredient of marriage: sex. I can't believe you treat sex as such a disposable thing!

There's a lot of good advice in this thread but I would really suggest you two do things you enjoy: massages, baths, eat off each other, take a romantic trip, wine, toys. See if you guys can get in the habit of giving you what you want every time and giving him what he wants every time.

You want a marriage? Then be a grown up wife and be a goddess in the bedroom. 
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