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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, were you surprised when he didn't leave? No judgment, honestly curious. I agree with telling him you can no longer talk to him as long as he's married. He's taking up too much space in your head and doesn't want you to move on. You do not deserve a life of misery because of this. [/quote]OP here, no I wasn't surprised.  I knew from the start that we both didn't have it in us to leave.  There are young kids involved on both sides, established lives, mutual friends. I  didn't leave my marriage for him, I left because I didn't want to be married anymore, it was that simple. If I was going to go as far as cheat on my husband, it meant that I didn't want to be married to him, that's just it.

Telling my husband is not something I regret but telling his wife is the biggest mistake that I have ever made, I lost my senses that day and will forever regret that single action.

I don't regret the affair, it was 3 years together, very involved with us meeting and spending time with each other's children.  We "house shopped" together, we discussed finances, even saw an accountant a couple of times. Lots of traveling together, etc. I do consider him a kindred spirit that would have been an ideal mate in another lifetime.

It's hard to stop talking to him.[/quote]

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