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i find responses to be pretty similar. there is always the very loud cheated on group that comes here apparently for the sole reason to 1) shame cheaters 2) agitate that cheaters' partners be told about cheating in all and very circumstance. then there are other people who actually approach topics with the goal to help OP, whoever that is and whatever issue she has. their advice might be vary from topic to topic. [/quote]

1) Cheaters SHOULD be shamed. They are human garbage.
2) Cheaters partners SHOULD always be told. They're usually the last to know.

There is no reason to want to "help" the OP whose issue is she is a cheater who has caused other people a world of pain and now wants to escape the situation she caused without any further pain to herself. She is a disgusting human being.[/quote]

Are you authorized or somehow qualified to pronounce judgement on other humans? "For the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. " Right?[/quote]

That verse does not prohibit judgment. It says do not judge hypocritically. As I am not a cheater, it is not at all hypocritical of me to say cheaters are human garbage who are disgusting. Right? Right![/quote]
NP, actually that verse does not parse out sins the way you are presenting it here. It's not okay to call someone a disgusting human being because they are an adulterer and you are not. You have your own sins that may not be on the front page right now, but the fact that you have them means you have no room to talk. Counsel others, pray for them, try to guide them to the right path, sure. But calling them human garbage? Nope, that's not your role, no matter what sins you aren't committing.[/quote]

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