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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Let me see if this is sinking in. So..I get off work, I exercise, I clean the house, I bathe the kids and do dinner, homework, etc. DH is a lazy POS and hasn't done much of anything but come home from work and veg on the tv or phone. I don't get mad or feel resentful about this because hey, if I want to clean or feed the kids that's my side of the road to worry about, not his? Is the idea that he'll see me happy and not complaining and will eventually join in and help?[/quote] 1+. No joke. This is like: "How to be a doormat: 101." Success is... When after you do 95% of all the work you don't get so mad when your dear POS ("DPOS"?) criticizes all you've done??? Is this what you want for your daughters?? How can you possible be offering this as good advice?[/quote]k I do think the advice here is good, and fascinating. I want to try it. But, I think I'm missing something. Can someone please help clarify?[/quote]
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