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People always minimize their own impact on a situation, so ' I doubt you tried  3 or 4 times or only  said no to sex when he initiated in the immediate post partum.
It's the 4th page now so people have probably forgotten, but way back on the first page  you say he asked you for lingerie and a lap dance which you have decided not to do.
You seem to believe in the stereotype that you should just show up to bed, take of your shirt, give a  BJ and that should be enough he should just be ready. Not always how it works.

I know you posted here to be validated by the sex starved men and the  women who will just tell you  are right just because you are female, but my diagnosis is you both share in this. It seems like the two of you are not willing to compromise and meet each other's  needs it's all my way or the highway which is a death sentence to a happy healthy sex life and marriage.[/quote]

I don't think she's nearly as attractive as she thinks she is. At first she mentions baby weight (always a red flag) but then claims she's 5-5/110  :roll: . I, like you, believe that OP's the type of woman who sits on her rear and never lifts a finger for anything: sex, dinner, dates, etc. The man is to ALWAYS initiate while she sits on her fat little rear and has everything handed to her.

Sorry, I'm not buying it.[/quote]

Hmmmmm.  You've sure figured out a lot about OP from her saying very little.  Regardless if she's attractive to you, she was once attractive to her husband.  She doesn't want to have sex with you.  She wants to sleep with her husband. [/quote]

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