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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]- Not reporting my rape in college because I didn't want to let my parents down (yes, that was my thought process). I now regret that decision and wish I had but at that point, I thought it would hurt them too much and I know they wouldn't be okay with me living away from them. It was tough to keep that to myself and to this day, they don't know. It still hurts. - Finally deciding to fight back against my abusive ex boyfriend. It saved my life although when 911 finally showed up (took a while) they didn't know what my chances would be with how much blood I had lost. - Deciding to walk away from my fiancé after a devastating miscarriage. He tried to rush me to get over it and didn't understand why I didn't want to immediately try again. He had no idea what losing a baby felt like and despite being perfect in every other way, I knew that I couldn't one day marry this man. I loved him then and part of me still loves him now, but my whole world came crashing down when the miscarriage happened and I still don't know if I've fully recovered from it. [/quote] Counseling would have been another option. People respond very differently to grief. [/quote] Agree you should have tried counseling. We've had several devastating miscarriages and other fertility related nightmares for most of our marriage and I can tell you that men often react differently to it than women. They want to fix the situation somehow. We are lucky in that all of it ultimately made us stronger.[/quote]
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