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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact that he had your son fully engaged in a personal relationship with his mistress and helping his father hide it from you, and even communicating to her what was going on when you discovered it, is a complete and total game changer. You should be more worried about your son than your relationship with your husband at this point (even if it was something to save, though it sounds like it isn't). Your son is hurt by this in ways he doesn't recognize now. He has hurt you in ways that are surely painful to him, even if he doesn't articulate it. He should be your focus and it should happen without your husband around. [/quote]

Exactly this, OP.  I have boys, one of whom is a teenager.  I can't imagine how awful and betrayed you must have felt by your son.  Fuck your husband, you need to rebuild your relationship with your son before he turns into the giant asshole your husband is.  (Sorry for the swearing, but this actually really makes me mad/sad).

Go find a good lawyer and start putting together your exit plan.  Blindside your douche husband with divorce papers.

Go find a very good therapist for your son, and yourself.  Get your relationship back on track, and let him see the mother and woman we know you can be.

Good Luck.  Let us know if we can help....recommendations, etc.

You deserve much more than what you are getting now, and a year from now, it will be much better.  Believe us.[/quote]

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