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[quote=Anonymous]Goodness, OP, that is a lot.  I'm really sorry.

Do you even like or love your husband anymore?  And not in the way you love a family member even though the family member is a jerk.  It sounds like you long for the family you thought you had, but that seems like it's gone (if it ever really existed).  Your husband obviously doesn't care about the pain and damage he has inflicted on you and your son (because involving your son is truly horrible parenting even if the son seems not terribly upset by it).  Does he say why he is still in the marriage?  If I was you, I would gather my strength and leave with integrity and self-respect.  I would then try to work on my relationship with my son independent of his relationship with your husband.  But there doesn't seem to be any love in this family coming from anyone but you right now.  You deserve peace.

I would also be tempted, the next time he says you are just having a pity party and are unhappy, that there is a clear reason for your unhappiness and he is it.[/quote]

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