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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, play back the scenario your therapist described. She said you and your mother are acting like a couple of teenage girls. And you aren't the least bit embarrassed by that, nor has it made you reevaluate your own behavior. I feel like the most sympathetic figure in all this is your sister. And given that you have done your best to paint yourself in a positive light, and make her the villain, that's pretty telling. [/quote] I think this is spot on. OP, I think when you say your therapist validated your feelings, you misunderstood what that really means. She probably said it is understandable that you feel how you do, and that is valid. I doubt that she made an actual judgment as to who is right or even who among you is more wrong. There is something in the dynamic with your mother that probably repels your sister. She is entitled to her feelings too and to keep whatever distance works for her.[/quote]
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