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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. Thanks for the comments. Good and bad. The truth lies somewhere inbetween. The length of time this has gone on has certainly caused us enough stress that we have both said things or been less than patient with the other at different times. Fortunately- we do love one another and we will find a way to get through this. One day at a time. And perhaps with a bit of therapy when it's all over.

On FIL front, my DH finalized all the hospice stuff today. Of course, that is M-F once a day visits. An uncle is planning on stopping by once a day- so that will help. But the nighttime is what worries everyone the most. I told DH he cannot stay there forever, and he knows that. But he really doesn't want his dad to die alone. I have told him to stay as long as he needs to- because that is the right thing to do. But I do hope he comes home soon. The kids miss him- as do I.  And- he cannot miss an indefinite amount of work.

His devotion and care to his father- who truly does not deserve it- is definitely one of the reasons I love my DH. I am proud of him and I tell him that frequently. We are just trying to get through this all. Not an easy task on anyone. I will try to outsource some more things- I could definitely be better about taking advantage of peapod and asking for help from some local friends.[/quote]

Thanks for the update Op.
Even if he can't express it to you right now or ever your DH appreciates you supporting him.

I don't know if you've answered this already, but maybe you and the kids can go visit DH or at least skype and facetime a little more.

This won't be forever. Just hang in there a little longer.[/quote]

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