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[quote=Anonymous]I'm divorced and remarried with joint custody of my child. No additional children. My daughter's father is remarried with two small children.

I wouldn't recommend "blended" family life to anyone. I wish it wasn't my life, but living with my ex was way worse.

I'm quite confident my ex's wife hates it even more than I do. My ex has had it in for me since our divorce and has wasted far too much of his time and emotional energy on his endless war on me - time he could have and should have dedicated to her and their kids. She was in her mid thirties and not particularly attractive, and signed up for what seemed like a good deal. I don't think it's been easy for her at all.

It's been tough on me and my husband, too. My ex's obsession with me (ex: he'll fire off an angry email to us, threatening custody litigation, because he feels I ignored him at a soccer game) takes up too much of our time and emotional energy.

It also sucks to schedule your life around joint custody.

I didn't have any more kids because I didn't want my kid to be a part-time kid and have baby siblings who were full - time kids (which ended up being the situation in her other  house).

I don't hate my life but I would not recommend blended family life to anyone. [/quote]

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