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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  I am completely blocking out any notion of divorce, until the youngest is in elementary school.  When I said I am worried about what will happen once the kids leave, I meant once they leave permanently as in college. I will still be in fairly young, in my early 40s. So i am mostly worried about him sleeping constantly, and me doing what?  the kids will gone and I will be left to take care of him. He is a total man child, this is a lesson to your daughters, do not marry your first boyfriend and do no marry young. [/quote]

Why would OP wait?  That's harder on everyone. Harder on her to have the dead weight until then, harder on the kids because they will be older and more aware of what is happening. I can't believe she wouldn't rather do it now when the kids are at an age where divorce parents would be all they knew/remembered.

She wants this to be "a lesson to [our] daughters" but what she's teaching her kids is that they should put up with this shit from their future "partners". Every day that goes by she's sending them that message. Sheesh. [/quote]

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