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[quote=Anonymous]op, dont beat yourself up. Yes you were petty. So was he. Give it a break, and apologize to him. Come up with a plan to give yourself some more downtime, that doesnt interfere with the financial reasons that got you here in the first place. Where theres a will there's a way.

Have some groceries delivered via peapod or instacart or amazon. Hammer out a basic order that covers your major meal needs, ((ours looks like eggs, pastas, lots of lean meats and lunch stuff,  somebbasic veggies and fruits) and then make a secondary grocery trip when it suits you for fun stuff, for example. a trip to the farmers markets with the kids. I schedules my groceries to come when my husband is home, so that he can help put them away, while we both cook. I'll Batch prep foods, snacks, lunches, find every shortcut that i can to make our life a little more enjotable without more cost. Everything gets paid online, and i hire as many helpers through thumbtack as possible tobtake care of bs chores that we dont have time for. It is not always as seamless as i hope.

But before i sound too preachy, we are also doing very $$$ marriage therapy. One visit is &gt; on week of camp but wayyyyyy less than a divorce.

find time for yourself, so that you can also be kind to him. That is basically what my therapist told me for $600. ???

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