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[quote=Anonymous]What.The.Fuck?

There is no way OP was in any way unreasonable here? Are people seriously stating that she should have delayed child bearing b/c of a wedding? Or that any family member has any right to be pissed b/c she went into labor early? Neither of these things is reasonable. PERIOD.

Frankly, I would not sweat them in the least.  At the first opportunity I had, I'd tell them that you were bummed not to make the wedding but the continued nasty treatment better stop and point out how unbelievably self-centered she's being (it sounds like it's mostly SIL). Life happens.  And you all need to make the best of it.  Your kids are going to be cousins. You're going to see each other at family events. So, you need to find a way to move past it or the rest of your lives are going to be pretty unpleasant.  Leave it to her how she wants that to go.  You've "apologized" in a way and left her behavior up to her.  Then you go on as if nothing happened.

When she has kids, she will see what a ridiculous cow she is being.[/quote]

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