Reply to How to deal with the sting of infidelity

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "How to deal with the sting of infidelity"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am responding here to 20:43 with some more insight/info on my situation.   In my case we are married over 30 years and I never thought anything like this would ever happen.  However what let to complacency was that his workplace was always 99% MEN.  [b] Then due to all this diversity crap, they started getting more young women into every conceivable position to get the "numbers" up. [/b] All of a sudden he has a young intern sitting in his office all day.  Then all these young women stopping by to talk.  Etc Etc.  Soon all I am hearing about is these women's lives !  Of course my husband never mentions me or my accomplishments.     How about the fact that I made more than him for our early years and bought us our house?   Then all of a sudden a totally male business trip turns into one where this woman comes along and then he is totally infatuated with her, talking to me about marrying her !     I am on an even keel now 4 years later but my devotion has waned considerably.   I always wondered how husbands could throw over their wives keeping everything together at home and now it happened to me.   Another contributing factor was that we live over an hour from his job so I have never met any of these people or their families.  There are no company get togethers.    [b]My husband was not prepared emotionally for all these women coming into his workplace and the smartphones,[/b] etc. exacerbated all of this with the constant texting.  I was left out.[/quote]

Riiiighht.  How horrible your husband should work with women!   Why are you blaming the women and not your husband?  [/quote]

This is so goddamn infuriating... so women shouldn't get job opportunities because your husband can't control himself?  WTF?!  
I really cannot believe what I just read.  It's the women and the smartphones!  Jesus Christ.[/quote]

Surely no woman would have stopped by his office if he were not acting inviting towards her.... He laid out the welcome mat. Blame the women all you want. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics