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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I already stated that he told me this because the woman was a close friend of his best friends wife. I may run into her at some point while hanging out with them He didn't want me to feel caught off guard if I find out then.

[b]I realized how stupid it was to be mad.[/b] I don't sleep around casually but I know many people do.[b] I do feel bad that he slept with the other woman [/b]and then just broke it off, but that happens all the time. He really is a good guy. We are putting this in the past and moving forward![/quote]

OP, please consider what some other PPs have said about figuring out what you want and owning your own feelings. Please don't demean yourself by calling your feelings "stupid." Although I think the guy sounds fine, it also seems like a really crappy way to start out your relationship: you feeling bad/mad, telling yourself you are stupid for feeling that way, and then sweeping everything under the rug to move forward. Take some time to acknowledge your feelings. There is nothing wrong with telling him that you want to think some more before making a decision about becoming exclusive.[/quote]

OP here. I'm not diminimizing my feelings. It's just not a big deal to me. If he were to sleep with some in right before asking me to be exclusive, it would be different, and I would be gone. We were strangers we that point. I can't fault him for doing something when he barely knew me or where our relationship would go. I value his honesty. We are moving on. [/quote]

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