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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband cheated because he gave himself permission to do so. [b] All of us have opportunities to cheat. [/b] We each decide whether to be faithful to our spouse or not.  Cheating is not a one time incident ... a "mistake".  It is a series of decisions that lead a person down a known path.  Grownups can tell when they are making those decisions and they are fully aware that they are not telling their spouse about them.

How to deal with the sting of infidelity?  Decide for yourself what YOU are willing to tolerate.  Is it okay for your spouse to lie to you?  Is it okay for your spouse to give himself permission to "go there" with another woman?  Do you trust him now that you know he is capable of making selfish decisions despite his full knowledge that what he is doing would be deeply hurtful to you?  You deserve much better.  I suggest you get a good lawyer, file, and get started on living the rest of your new life.  Or you can waste the next 20 years of your life (as I did) and THEN get a good lawyer, file, and get started living the rest of your new life.[/quote]

I never do and cannot understand why.  Reasonably attractive, in shape, fun to be around with, and earn a good salary.  Where are all these women in offices who have affairs with guys who work there?  [b]How come nothing ever happens to me?[/b]  [/quote]

Do you really want "something" to happen?  Or just get a a good flirt on?[/quote]

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