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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd give him enough time to hang himself. Confront him now and he'll say he was just curious and never intended to meet anyone or he was looking for friend.  I think you'll have a much better chance of getting him to work on the marriage and address the core issues if he can't deny because he knows he's caught.  [/quote]

This. If you can wait out a few weeks, go back to the site then and see what he's been up to. Also check the secret email account. He might sign up for more sites. If you confront him now he'll just say he was curious or that he and a friend signed up for shits and giggles. Patience is your friend. [/quote]

In the meantime that is tough. Acting like nothing is wrong? Personally I'd have to be extra smiley, extra good to the kids, and tears would be explained away by those "silly hormones!" "I saw a super sweet commercial..." I'd also be really tempted to blow a bunch of (his) money on new clothes for me, sexy makeup, etc. Make him wish he wasn't straying and empty his wallet in the meantime.

I do agree this could work out better--if your eventual goal is to let him keep going and catch him getting deeper in trouble.

But If your goal is more reconciliation I'd stop it before it continues. (but only after you have solid enough evidence to make sure it sticks)

My favorite is the idea of using a fake profile to meet him. Stand him up of course. Then use that time to guilt him so hard when he comes back. [/quote]

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