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[quote=Anonymous]I dealt with something similar -- except I saw a bunch of odd numbers on our cell phone bill.  I googled them and they were for hookers via backpage.com and the like.  It went back years.

I did the following:
- installed a keylogger on the joint computer to monitor his activities remotely.
- installed an app on his phone that would email me all of his text messages.
- I scoured our bank records for cash withdrawls and unusual activity.

This was mostly for my confirmation of what he was doing.  I lasted about 5 days before I confronted him.

In your case, I would just sit, wait, and watch.  It sounds like he was just doing something stupid.  Look for cash withdrawals. Monitor his activity on the computer.  Do it for as long as you can.  If it turns out that he just did something stupid and doesn't further engage, then I would let him know that you know and go to counseling.  If he is further engaging in inappropriate activity, you'll need to decide whether it is worth salvaging the marriage.[/quote]

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