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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here.  My goodness, the DCUM mean-girl harpies are out in full force.

If the colleagues made fun of OP's appearance at work in front of her, they are unprofessional and assholes.  Any PP who has defended this behavior as okay needs training in social skills and professionalism.

That said, it is weird to me, OP, that they sobbed when you confronted them.  And for you to want to switch cubicles over this is an over-reaction.  Just learn and move on.

If this story is real, your best bet is just to keep everything on the professional level from here on out.  [/quote]

OP here, thank-you for your reasonable and nonjudgmental response. [b]Frankly I was surprised that this cattiness is considered normal workplace behavior by so many on DCUM.[/b] I've worked in the same office 10 years and never encountered it before, so maybe I've been overly sheltered. I agree with your wisdom to learn from this  and move on. Thank-you again, and to the others who gave helpful advice.

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Actually, I'm not sure where you're reading that PPs consider this normal workplace behavior, OP. I see the opposite. This is unusual enough behavior to strain credulity. They acted badly and you reacted badly and all three of you were unprofessional.[/quote]

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