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Reply to "I'm on the verge of divorce, talk me down"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a neat freak, this would definitely impact the quality of life for me. I need my external environment to be in order so that my mind can be calm. If you are telling him over + over that he needs to be more tidy, yet it falls on deaf ears than that is showing a HUGE disrespect to you as a person. Sure you could get a divorce.....or he can get his own place and you can live under separate roofs.[/quote] I take a different view on this...if leaving cabinet doors open and light switches on (both things that can be remedied in a few seconds) are required to a) keep your mind calm and b) be a trigger for huge disrespect....worthy of divorcing her otherwise fine husband (there have been no other complaints) and breaking up a child's home...that is indicative of a mental disorder with OP and you. OCD? Anxiety? This lady claims to enjoy staying home all day but then wants to divorce her husband over light switches and cabinets? Think about the child!!! Based on the facts presented by OP, I've never seen a bigger case of "the grass isn't always greener" (although it may be for her DH). [/quote]
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