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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a SAHM to a 2 year old. It's hard. All day I'm. Cleaning up messes. But I enjoy staying home and my dh prefers it. I love my dh but he is always making messes. As soon as he comes home from work the messes begin. He leaves his shoes out, leaves lights on, leaves cabinet door opens, opens stuff out and leaves packaging on the floor, puts stuff in the freezer without closing the packaging. His job is to do the dishes but he constantly forgets to load all the fishes, doesn't pre-rinse them good enough for them to be clean, etc.

I know this seems small but it's driving me crazy. I have to be home all day, and for once I'd like to wake up in the morning to order before my toddler rips everything apart. Or not have to spend every moment of my life cleaning up after someone. Is this something stupid to divorce over? I've talked dh about it a million times. [/quote]

It sounds like a lot of the mess gets made in the kitchen when the DH gets home from work? There is no dinner made so he is opening cabinets, throwing packaging on the floor, putting stuff back in the freezer? Could he be expecting dinner to be ready and feeling resentful that he has to make himself frozen and packaged foods? Is it reasonable to expect that a SAHM would have dinner ready most days? If dinner were ready he might stay out of the kitchen?[/quote]

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