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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just...what?

Talking to a neighbor today, he said his son is "all boy" several times. Like, oh he likes to kick that ball...he's all boy! He likes to play in that toy car...he's all boy! He likes to find sticks...HESALLBOY!!!!

The oddest part is, my DD was right there, doing all these things, too. The kids were playing together, doing pretty much the exact same things.

So what do people mean when they say that? Do you fear that a princess costume will overtake your son in a dark ally if you don't utter that phrase every time Little Jimmy plays with Hotwheels?[/quote]

They are trying to express their pride and relief that he's behaving in a stereotypical masculine manner, which suggests he won't grow up to be a gay. [/quote]

This.  Trucks, sports, etc., suggest to nervous moms that their son won't be gay.  And that makes them happy.[/quote]

I don't feel that way at all. In fact, I've often wondered if one of my "all boy" sons is gay. It would not bother me at all if he is. For me, I was surprised that boys behave from a very young age in stereotypical "all boy" ways without being taught or coerced into doing it. I always thought gender was a social construction. Wrong. I've learned a lot about people by becoming a parent. If I had a daughter, I would totally support any pink or princess item she wanted to focus on -- unlike my feminist parents, who convinced me that anything to do with being a girl was ipso facto inferior to all things boy....[/quote]

I see what your saying but like OP I've had the experience where my daughter has been playing with a friend who is a boy doing the exact same things and the mom will remark that her son is all boy. It doesn't offend me at all, clearly just a mom taking joy in a child's personality. But I don't see those aspects of my daughter's personality as being "boyish" --more like curious, adventurous, etc. [/quote]

Probably because the boy plays that way ALL. DAY. LONG. Not just at that moment, while you two are watching.[/quote]

So does my girl. And my boy is a daisy picker. [/quote]

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