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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a nanny.  My husband earns 6 figures.  All he cares about is that I make a reasonable effort to look good, I'm kind to him and that I have got sex with him.  That's all it takes. [/quote]

What incredibly low standards. Why did he pick you instead of another attractive nanny if that's all he cares about?[/quote]

Because she's the one who first started treating him nicely? Its cool if you think that's low standards, but she's describing the overwhelming majority of men. If my wife treats me and our family well and we're attracted to each other, that's pretty much all of my requirements for a happy marriage.[/quote]

You don't care about common values for raising children, intellectual compatibility, spirituality....?[/quote]

Not really, other than in the sense that someone who treats me and our children well probably inherently has many of the same values as me.

I do not think I am in a minority of men here. I think for most men, a happy marriage is one where your wife respects you, is attracted to and affectionate towards you, and treats the kids well. Period. There's really nothing else to it.[/quote]

There is nothing else to it as long as the perfect scenario goes on forever. I have seen it a thousand times, shit hits the fan you loose a job or get ill and she has no ability to pick up the slack. You become financially ruined and she blames you.  Or that money you make isn't really enough to meet up to her spending or wants and needs and you get the blame. Lord forbid she or you want out of the marriage, you will pay alimony for the next 20yrs while you are entertaining your kids with cheap pizza in your 1 bdr apartment cause that is all you can afford any more. Absolutely, that is all that makes a marriage work hot wife that is nice to you and the kids.[/quote]

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