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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men would you date a woman who was:

- a waitress
- a retail sales associate
- a nanny

and other such jobs. Why or why not?[/quote]

It is one thing if they have worked as these things, it is another if this is the end of her career choices and has no aspirations to do more or ability to do more. You also have to consider what type of waitress, at applebees or high end restaurant with great tips/income. Saks fur department on commission or The Gap. Nanny shared among many families who are struggling to have a nanny or nanny to wealthy family. All of thee have potential to earn very well.[/quote]

Yeah basically this.  The job itself isn't really the issue but I'd want someone that could contribute financially.  Another issue is that retail workers and waitresses often have to work odd schedules so that can be a challenge.[/quote]

I think the bigger issues is if you hook up with someone with this sort of job/income(low potential) are you expecting them to contribute to the household income? Are you willing to take on all the financial burden and she take up the slack at home with the kids? Down the road (as so often happens) are you going to resent this. Better have butt load of insurance cause something happen to you then they are on the street.[/quote]

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